Being heartbroken when you find out your boyfriend or husband no longer loves you is the worst feeling in the world.
He changed how he feels about you at some point, and now you’re not sure if you should wait for him to tell you or move on with your life.
It’s been going on for a while, and the signs were there the whole time. I just couldn’t accept them until I’d had enough of the hurt and pain.
If you’re going through a hard time, these 10 signs might help you figure out if there’s still hope or if he really doesn’t love you anymore.
Number 10. He avoids spending time with you
He used to look forward to being with you, but now he does everything he can to stay away from you.
If you live with him, you might even wonder how he times it so well.
But it helps that he knows your plan.
Whenever you walk in the door, he quickly leaves or gets busy, or he plans something with other people when he knows you have the day off.
Number 9. He doesn’t care about your feelings
When you love someone, it’s hard to hurt them. You’re always aware of how they feel, and the thought of hurting them hurts right back.
But when the love is gone, he doesn’t care as much about how you feel anymore.If he stops checking in on your feelings and instead chooses to ignore you, that’s a big sign that he doesn’t love you anymore.
Number 8. There’s a lack of communication
If you can’t talk to your partner, it means they aren’t putting much effort into the relationship.
He no longer texts you to tell you what he’s doing after work, and he never calls to check on you.
As time goes on, he’ll start to shut down. Where once you were honest about your feelings and thoughts with each other, he now tries to avoid it at all costs.
Number 7. You Have Not Met His Parents
This one is easy. You and your partner are in love and have talked about a future together. But he keeps you away from his close friends and family.
He is vague and doesn’t want you to get in touch with his family in any way. Either he doesn’t love you or he’s still not sure about seeing you.
Number 6. He Has Been Comparing You With Other Women Lately
This is the most hurtful one. He doesn’t see you the same way he used to if he finds other women more beautiful, smart, sexy, or skilled than you. He no longer likes the person you are.
If he speaks negatively about you and becomes angry about it, and if he fails to make you feel good about yourself, it is obvious that he no longer loves you.
Number 5. He gets angry for no reason
When a guy is no longer in love but hasn’t broken up with the girl, his feelings are often all over the place.
In one way, he’s angry that he feels stuck and doesn’t know how to tell you that he doesn’t love you anymore.On the other hand, he might still feel bad or guilty about wanting to leave.
If he falls out of love, that doesn’t make him a cruel monster; it can happen to anyone.So because he has so many mixed feelings, he may act out more often and over small things.
Number 4. He stops saying he loves you
This is a clear sign, but you may have missed it because of everything else going on in the relationship.
When did he last tell you he loved you?If it happened not too long ago, did he say it like he was reading from a script or like he really meant it?
He will try very hard not to tell you that he doesn’t love you anymore. The only time he’ll probably say it is when you say it first.
Number 3. He avoids emotional conversations
Does your man always come up with a reason not to talk about how you feel?
He doesn’t want to hear about your most recent fight or how you’re feeling in general because of the way he’s been acting lately.
He might not want to tell you how he feels because he’s afraid or not ready, or he might not care about what you think or feel.
You shouldn’t stay in either situation because it’s not good, especially if you can’t say how you feel.
Number 2. He stops making plans with you
This will make him unhappy, so he won’t want to be around you.It will be hard to get him to do anything, even something small like going to your aunt’s birthday party next week.
It’s possible that he’s trying to get away from you by being unsure and unwilling to make plans with you. This could be his way of ending the relationship.
That way, it won’t be as shocking when he finally tells her the bad news.